On its own, it isn't quite vigorous enough. On my husband, it's PERFECT. I was dubious about the size and shape - couldn't figure out how things would line up. Well, let me tell you. THEY LINE UP. Read the instructions ahead of time. We couldn't get the damn thing turned off ; 0
We love this! Comfortable for the hubby. Other products have been too tight. Love the versatility of being pleasing to both of us and that it was simple to use. Changing functions will take practice, but they seem to be enough for us. This is definitely a winner and looking forward to it’s place in our intimacy.
As an older (57) & somewhat girthier guy, I struggled with this at first as I wasn’t used to wearing this kind of thing & it did seem very tight to begin with. However, I persevered and found that it gave me something that I’d not seen for a very long time. I swelled to a size that I thought had been long gone and, more importantly, I stayed like that for as long as it took. I was worried that it might have reduced the intensity of the climax by being too restrictive but my fears were ill founded. I bought this as I expected it to be the best & didn’t want to waste money on inferior products. Although I haven’t tried the cheaper alternatives, I still feel it’s money well spent!
My husband and I have used this once since we got it a few weeks ago. His number one thing that he was surprised to find out was how it didn't interfere with how low I could thrust down on him. I wished the vibrations were stronger even though it has multiple levels of intensity. This isn't something we reach for Everytime but it's nice to have in the bedside drawer when you want it.